can’t have your cake and eat it too. the way federation works means bigger instances will always have more influence, but it’s a double edged sword. They cannot defederate from everything or it just turns into a normal centralized reddit knockoff, so the best thing to do is not to give in to their demands, if it gets bad enough the users will move; something else will become the next “flagship instance”.
nothing is exactly stopping you from jumping instances each time until you find someone that does not care for petty cross-site drama. username and comment history goes bust, but maybe that’s a good thing; less traceability.







not the technology itself necessarily, but everything that surrounds it. as it is, it’s mostly used as a plagiarism machine that devalues artists, and the companies behind it are committing mass copyright infringement, making electricity and hardware more expensive just so it can do that better.