Stating that Sync client has ads, on a post about Lemmy clients, is toxic.

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but sometimes you have kids online who don’t obviously seem like kids because you can’t see them

Point taken… Altho personally I don’t care about how old someone is. When I game online or just squat on Lemmy/Reddit/forum, I’m fine taking to people whether they’re 13 or 70. If anything, younger people tend to be more open minded, which possibly comes with having access to all the information.

But yea I guess some topics probably hit different when you grow up in a certain style of environment. Still, when I babysit kids, I find they are curious about everything and are willing to change their mind if they get explained something realistically. And I don’t see younger people ask loaded questions as often as older folks do.

I’d imagine if you’re not in tech circles you also don’t find out much about privacy risks.

I don’t begrudge people for not knowing things. What I find interesting is how they react when they learn about something, or their initial train of thought. You probably know the experiment of asking randos “should dihydrohen monoxide be banned?”

I have this hobby almost, I like finding new things, weird and divisive stuff. Oddball topics, weird fetishes, strange habits, crazy hobbies, wild art, whatever. If there’s a community with “weird” in the title, I’ll probably subscribe to it.

And it also gives me some insight into how outsiders react when they stumble upon that stuff. Most people, when confronted with something out of their ordinary, tend to go “damn good thing I’m normal, everyone is weird” or worse. So I guess it is human nature, but you can also imagine how tiring it can get.

I understand and even appreciate that people have different priorities, worries and preferences. Which is why I dislike the attitude some take, “if you don’t care about X, you’re part of the problem”. It may even be true in lots of cases, but we can’t all care about the same things, less we all worry about everything all the time, and that’s not good or realistic.

Funny thing though. I’ve seen people have civil debates about the most sensitive, divisive topics, as long as the initial question or statement comes from a place of genuine curiosity.

But whenever I see people ask the “why is privacy important?” question, it’s never just “am I missing something?” but more of a “gimme all the ads, collect everything about me, I don’t care”, sometimes with the “you conspiracy theorists weirdos, nobody cares about you and you’re probably pedos anyway” sprinkled in.

So it’s a bit tiring to see this over and over, hence my snark at the beginning. And I don’t know where the attitude is coming from. Maybe it’s just a relatively new issue and people aren’t used to constantly being exposed to the debate, like with some other topics?

But in that case I gather that it should be the opposite problem - we used to have much more privacy than we have now, that just has to be obvious (hence the questions in the first place), so the proper question to ask would be “wait, why is everyone so interested in everything I do all of a sudden? Why is every corporation suddenly collecting all my data and giving me free stuff in return while raking in billions of profits? Hm, sus”

Eh maybe I’m missing something.

My point is that if it’s something that clearly lots of people care about, it’s probably a good idea to think a little.

The “why anyone would” part is in the “why people make a fuss”. I don’t wish to be a teacher here picking apart every word, don’t get me wrong, but people get upset if you invalidate what they care about. It’s like telling someone who’s angry to calm down.

Fortunately people here have more patience heh.

Well imagine coming to a vegetarian forum and asking: “Why does everyone make a fuss about killing animals? I eat meat three times every day, go on hunts every month, sometimes just for fun, I don’t even eat those animals. Also I don’t care about cages and all that, animals don’t have souls anyway.”

It may also be a genuine question, but sometimes it’s good to spend 10 seconds before asking, either by just thinking or maybe do a very brief web search.

In general, questions of the “I don’t care about X so I don’t see why anyone else could” kind tend to be like that. You can ask, but you can also expect people won’t want to talk to you.

If you’d phrase this in a less twatty way, you could almost ask this in a “no stupid questions” community.

SF: Europa Report

I wouldn’t be so stoked about it. Retail chains use alp kinds of dirty tactics to get products cheaper, this is probably one of them.

Yea, there was recently a thread here. My brain kept going in the -punk direction but I knew it can’t be africapunk :p

The Three-body Problem trilogy and The Wandering Earth by Cixin Liu (plus some fanfiction) are the obvious choice.

Recently there was a thread here about Africa-focused sci-fi but I don’t remember what that genre is called…

The latest SDUC standard allows for up to 128 TB.

This is behaviour that gets you killed. Musk may be rich, but not “weapons manufacturer” or “oil magnate” powerful.

The aliens in the Three-body Problem trilogy are never described, but the unofficial sequel, Redemption of Time, retroactively describes them as bugs with some hive mind, I think. It’s interesting to go back to the trilogy with that in mind, as it really makes a lot of sense.

Dragon’s Egg apparently has some hyperintelligent bug-like creatures that live on a neutron star in an accelerated time frame. I hear it’s a good book, haven’t gotten to it yet.

And I think The Chessmen of Mars has some spider-like things… I.e. aliens that look like spiders with large heads.

I’ve used it a lot especially when console gaming and using my phone for Discord chat. So even tho I use BT earphones more often, it’s useful to have.

USB dongles are unacceptable because I use magnetic cables, and USB ports are notoriously prone to breaking, making the whole phone useless.

Gimme a phone with 2 USB ports and I won’t care about a headphone jack that much.

I love audiobooks and audio shows. I don’t mind reading, but I spend too much time looking at screens, so that’s a great way to rest the eyes, especially when such sick in bed. Or when not sick, I can do other things while listening, like cook.

Also lots of productions have audio effects, music etc, which can enhance the experience. Some people don’t like it, but I’ve started with audiobooks with Star Wars books, and how awesome it is to start a book with that iconic SW music?

Main disadvantage of audiobooks is difficult searching. If you remember hearing something and want to get back to it, it’s a lot more difficult. Also especially with sci-fi themes, you don’t get to know how things are spelled, making it hard to look up.

Pornlemmy.com

There’s also yiffit (.net I think?) and some .uk instance, like lemmef.uk or something

No, way to tag nsfw that’s not porn.

Can we have the exact opposite?

Sin Bon?