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SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Had a dream about drinking alcohol again and feeling like shit. Why is this happening to me? I hate drinking alcohol. I don't know why my dreams keep punishing me.
2·8 months agoNo, I don’t crave it, it’s an unpleasant experience for me personally. So I feel like dreaming about it is less about “I miss this feeling” and more like if you had some traumatic thing happen and then kept reliving it in your dreams. Thats what it seems like anyway.
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Had a dream about drinking alcohol again and feeling like shit. Why is this happening to me? I hate drinking alcohol. I don't know why my dreams keep punishing me.
21·9 months agoI see… does the non concrete contain perception of sensations which are usually physical but can be simulated (like pain, nausea, queaziness, etc)?
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Had a dream about drinking alcohol again and feeling like shit. Why is this happening to me? I hate drinking alcohol. I don't know why my dreams keep punishing me.
61·9 months agoThat could all be true, but I should clarify when I said I felt like crap I meant physically (mentally as well, sure). As in, how you feel if you’re really sick and unwell. Nausea, queaziness, headache, pain, lightheaded, etc.
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Had a dream about drinking alcohol again and feeling like shit. Why is this happening to me? I hate drinking alcohol. I don't know why my dreams keep punishing me.
42·9 months agoIt’s emotions and feelings as well (anxiety, stress, depression, disorientation, nausea, pain, etc) Just saying
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Had a dream about drinking alcohol again and feeling like shit. Why is this happening to me? I hate drinking alcohol. I don't know why my dreams keep punishing me.
31·9 months agoI should have probably mentioned I have tactile dreaming, meaning I feel physical sensations including pain in dreams, and my main reason why I feel “tormented” (or even tortured) by these dreams is not so much from a psychological or philosophical point of view (although there is that as well), but because in addition to feeling anxious, depressed, confused & disoriented in these dreams, which are all unpleasant experiences for me, I also feel “physically” unwell, nauseous/ill/sick, and in bodily pain as well in some cases. These are all things I felt when I had these experiences IRL, and yes I am possibly negatively affected more physically by substances than other people, which is part of why I decided it wasn’t for me.
I can deal with it if I have to, but since it happens quite often and makes going to sleep something I dread, I would rather prevent it happening if possible (and maybe that just takes a lot of time, I don’t know).
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Had a dream about drinking alcohol again and feeling like shit. Why is this happening to me? I hate drinking alcohol. I don't know why my dreams keep punishing me.
31·9 months agoI have tactile dreaming, meaning I experience physical sensations including pain in dreams, and in dreams like this I feel really physically unwell/nauseous and uncomfortable. It also happens recurringly, not just once, so I’d like to get to the bottom of how to stop it happening.
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•(Trigger warning) Can someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder r*pe themself?
2·10 months agoWhy isn’t it clear that DID exists? I thought it was accepted as a scientific consensus that “enacted” identities were genuinely perceived by the individuals experiencing & reporting them, which is why DID is still included in the DSM to this day.🤔
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is this grammatically correct: "The monkey who I'm wondering if can see my ears."
2·10 months agoYes it is actually, thank you!
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is this grammatically correct: "The monkey who I'm wondering if can see my ears."
1·10 months agoMaybe the pronoun “they” works? “I’m wondering if they can…”
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is this grammatically correct: "The monkey who I'm wondering if can see my ears."
21·10 months agoI use “they/them” for any animal/sentient being (whether or not they’re human) rather than “it” in order to avoid objectifying them, but I recognise this is not standard English. I also use “who” instead of “which” (A monkey/dolphin/dog/goat who (…) rather than a monkey which (…), etc) and basically any of the personal pronouns or words you would use for a human rather than an object (or I guess typically nonhuman animals). It’s a deliberate deviation from grammatical rules/traditional language for the sake of aligning with my personal beliefs & ethics about animal rights/vegan stuff. You can just ignore that part though because it’s just a force of habit, I actually forgot that would seem weird since it’s normal to me, the real confusion I had was with the overall sentence structure & how to phrase it; it still doesn’t sound right to me whether you use “it” or “they”.
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is this grammatically correct: "The monkey who I'm wondering if can see my ears."
21·10 months agoI use “they/them” for any animal/sentient being (whether or not they’re human) rather than “it” in order to avoid objectifying them, but I recognise this is not standard English. I also use “who” instead of “which” (A monkey/dolphin/dog/goat who (…) rather than a monkey which (…), etc) and basically any of the personal pronouns or words you would use for a human rather than an object (or I guess typically nonhuman animals). It’s a deliberate deviation from grammatical rules/traditional language for the sake of aligning with my personal beliefs & ethics about animal rights/vegan stuff. You can just ignore that part though because it’s just a force of habit, I actually forgot that would seem weird since it’s normal to me, the real confusion I had was with the overall sentence structure & how to phrase it; it still doesn’t sound right to me whether you use “it” or “they”.
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•In the show "3 Body Problem" (I haven't read the book) the statement was made **'our civilization is no longer capable of solving its own problems'**. Would you agree?
26·2 years agoWe are capable if we stop being selfish and go vegan
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's a movie where a single actor plays EVERY role (with no exceptions)?
91·2 years agoYou’re right technically… but i should have said “fictional story” and “plays multiple characters”
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's the difference between ethics and morality?
2·2 years agoInteresting, other responses here say it’s the other way round, with morality being more societally-derived and ethics being either more personally interpreted, or more practical/logical in spite of culturally conventional moral ideas.
Part of why I asked this question is because I seem to see morality and ethics defined to mean the opposite of each other in different places, and this kind of proves that to be the case lol
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's the difference between ethics and morality?
1·2 years agoI completely agree. Would you, in theory, be in support of giving rights to all sentient beings where possible, ensuring the best possible treatment and experiences of all individuals that have a conscious/subjective experience of life?
I would ideally like to see humanity extend moral/ethical consideration beyond humans to all animals, hypothetical alien animals, sentient AI, or any other sentients that emerged in future. I believe sentientism is the core underlying philosophy behind this idea of ethics.
SeahorseTreble@lemmy.worldOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's the difference between ethics and morality?
11·2 years agoThanks for your reply. :)
Wouldn’t ethics then define right and wrong in terms of its impact on the well-being of sentient beings, rather than just human well-being?
And I suppose the difference with morality might be that certain actions that don’t necessarily negatively impact other sentient beings, such as recreational drug use, might still be considered immoral by some due to cultural norms rather than practical considerations about the rightness or wrongness of them?
This show is very profound to me. It explores important issues, timeless and topical moral questions, and social/political dilemmas with such depth and thoughtful consideration. I really hope it gets a fourth season

This feels like a roundabout rubegoldbergian conclusion. I’ll take it. However, what if you want to phrase it like a noun in the form of “The possible possibility” or “The maybe-not necessity/not necessarily necessary necessity/uncertain necessity”? Can’t say “The maybe possibility” or “The maybe necessity” now can you? And what about as an adjective? “It’s maybe possible”? It’s maybe not necessary"? These are too either boggled or clunky.