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Cake day: November 24th, 2023

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  • I am happy to criticise the US system at any point, but the notion that it’s a democracy only on paper is a misrepresentation of reality.

    They managed to vote Trump out of office, and back in. Something that wouldn’t have been possible if it were not a democracy.

    Now the system of course has loads of difficulties and is suffering from extreme economic inequality, that leads to an immense influence of rich people over the undereducated masses, but they still have to spend their money for massive propaganda campaigns to win votes for their side, so the fundamental processes are still democratic.

    We’re gonna see if that remains the case by the end of Trump’s second term, though.




  • Thanks for putting the work in, to coin such a well-rounded response on a topic that is usually easily derailed.
    You seriously exceeded my expectations.

    I cannot read through that whole review right now, but it was an interesting read already for as far as I got, taking into account a lot of nuance to the topic, that one doesn’t usually find in public debates. (Or at least, I wouldn’t expect to find on a taboo topic like this. It’s not like that’s something I regularly discuss, just something I had thoughts about when reading comments under a random meme.

    I guess I have nothing to add. You clearly understood my meaning very well and as the paper states, there’s probably more research needed. I’d hypothesize, that engaging with such material can lead to both outcomes, just as it can for depictions of other illegal activities. The case might be warped however, because people who are exclusively attracted to children, have no way of acting out on that with a real person, whithout it being illegal and immoral, while people who are (also) attracted to adults have a plethora of possibilities. (And can live out some of their sexuality at least, even if they have trouble finding a partner that consensually takes part in their most extreme kinks)

    So yeah, complex issue. Thanks for your valuable contribution.


  • Do you have any real-world or professional experience with people suffering from pedophilia?

    I don’t, but I doubt that stance as being unfairly projecting some idea of how things have to work on those people.

    I for one can jerk off to the weirdest porn fantasy things, from the usual thinly-veiled step-siblings trope to rape play, weird power dynamics or tentacle porn (depictions of children not among them, I feel I have to mention that explicitly here), but I don’t have any desire to experience any of that in real life, because I absolutely know it would be wrong.

    I don’t see why that should neccessarily be different for them.









  • No no, if you just use Stuhl it works perfectly in German. This word has exactly the double meaning that is necessary for the pun, it’s not even a stretch. I’d have more trouble finding an appropriate verb for the translation.

    A Schemel is really a very small seat, no taller than knee-height. It’s something you sit on to milk a cow for example.

    And a Hocker is a kind of chair with usually neither arm nor foot-rest of any height. I’d say it’s pretty much a perfect match for the English stool. You could call a Schemel a kind of Hocker, but a Hocker can also be as tall as a normal chair or even taller at counter height, in which case we’d call it a Barhocker.